It’s a hard truth. Showing love to the thing which we are gonna lose, we do not have any option to hold it near us. Love is the most important thing we will ever have privilege of receiving in our lifetimes. It makes our lives beautiful and worthwhile. 
But in the end, it’s not just enough. You cannot win by loving things harder and making them topmost priority of your life. The thing is – we cannot hold things till lifetime. There is not any one thing in this world that stays with you long-term. Nothing is for EVER.

“To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.” – Winston Churchill

Things happen as they are meant to. You cannot change them. No matter how many efforts you put into change your partner, it will not happen unless or until he/she himself/herself wanna change.
This is where you lost everything important in you life whether it is a person or a thing, you lose, no matter what. 

Things are not in the way as they should be. You need to know how to go through them. 

Here : Now, Stop yourself for a minute, and think at your own, how hard it is to change ourselves. 
And how easy it is to point out someone’s mistake or change you wanna see in them.

“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.” -Charles Darwin

Change is hard. It’s uncomfortable. No one cannot bear change unless they want to. The inner voice of the person is imperative in some circumstances.
Do not indulge in other people’s life and the problems they face. Your life is yours. Start focusing on more of you not on them. Don’t put all efforts in making others right and change them. Focus on what you need, what type of person do you wanna be. Give yourself all the things that you are waiting for someone to come and they fulfill your dreams.
Stop seeking for the change in others, be the one. 

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